How to Use a Vibrator by TooTimid

If you have an open-minded girlfriend, she probably is very candid about her sex toys. She doesn’t hide them, she lets you use them on her, and heck, you even buy her a sex toy once in a while to show how much you care about her. What a romantic gesture it is to give her a seven-inch dildo for her birthday.

If you are that lucky guy, you should take the next step and show her how she can use the toy and how to clean it up afterward. She will either love you for “the effort in the relationship,” or she will take it as a sign that you think she can’t handle her business and freeze you out for a month. However, it turns out, be bold and take your chances.

If you are a girl going through this text and already resonate with it, hang around and learn how you can use your different kinds of a dildo. As a bonus, you’ll also learn how to keep them squeaky clean because it is ladylike or hygienic; whichever way you see it.

How do you use a vibrator?

When you buy her a car, and she doesn’t know how to drive, you’ve got to teach her how to drive, right? Well, the same thing goes with a vibrator.

Using a vibrating dildo seems easy. I mean, all she has to do is insert it and start vibrating the damn thing, right? Wrong. There are ways in which a woman can use a vibrator or dildo to more significant effect.

If she uses it right, she should bring herself to orgasm as many times as she can. She will explore her body and learn of different ways in which she can climax. Hopefully, she will give you the leakage and at the same time stay away from other guys that sniff around when you’re not around.

If she has never brought herself to orgasm with one of these devices, you need to show her how to do it. Thankfully, that’s precisely what I intend to do.

For the sake of this guide, I will focus on four popular variants of vibrators:

The Basic Vibrator

Vibrating Dildo

Vibrating Bullet

Rabbit Vibrator

Other kinds of vibrators and dildos don’t stray too far from how women use these four. Therefore, I hope that this guide will be as conclusive as it can get.

Before we delve into the nitty-gritty, I should mention that lubrication is necessary. Irrespective of the fact that there is the natural vaginal lubrication, a little more slip is good because it minimizes chafing. It doesn’t take away from the pleasure by any means anyway, so it is highly recommended.

The Basic Vibrator

The basic slim vibrator is the most fundamental vibrator. It is usually metallic and smooth, and it has no contours or anything, just flat. The vibrations are at the tip. If the brand that she has is any good, it should have the option to vary the magnitude of the waves. Here is a general way to go about it:

Step 1: Apply some lube to the vibrator. Start the vibrator off with small vibrations.

Step 2: She should clench the vaginal muscles at first to get more blood into the vaginal walls and clitoris. It also helps her get in the mood faster.

Step 3: She should then rub the tip of the vibrator on the clitoris. She can move it around gently, and this should bring her to a quick clitoral orgasm.

Step 4: If she wants to have a vaginal orgasm, she should slide it in slowly and then thrust to orgasm.

Step 5: She can angle it downwards as she thrusts to let the tip of the vibrator rub her upper vaginal wall for a squirting orgasm.

Step 6: She should increase the magnitude of the vibrations as she gets more aroused.

To clean the vibrator, she should remove the battery first then wash it with a toy cleaner and some water. A damp cloth is good enough because the vibrator may not be waterproof.

The Vibrating Dildo

This kind of sex toy is made using a flexible material. The rules are the same as with the basic vibrator. Lubrication is necessary. The manner in which she uses it is like the basic dildo as I described it.

Cleaning it is also similar to the basic vibrator. The missus ought to remove the batteries before she cleans it with a toy cleaner and some water. She must not immerse it in water unless it is waterproof.

The Vibrating Bullet

The vibrating bullet typically has an egg-shaped head that is connected to the controller using a cord. It is ideal for beginners and advanced users for powerful vaginal orgasms. It can also induce clitoral orgasms if she rubs it against her clit. The general way of using it is as follows:

Step 1: Apply lube to the head of the toy (the bullet).

Step 2: She should then hold it by the cord against the clit then switch it on.

Step 3: Then once it starts to buzz, she can rub it against the clit for a quick external orgasm.

Step 4: For a more deep, vaginal orgasm, she should insert the bullet into her vagina and let it do its magic.

Step 5: As it is inside, she can continue to rub her clitoris for an even more intense orgasm.

Step 6: She can pull it out using the cord once she finishes using it.

When it comes to cleaning it, the bullet and the cord can be submerged in water as they are usually waterproof. The controller should stay out of the water. It can be cleaned with a damp cloth if anything gets to it.

A Rabbit Vibrator

The rabbit vibrator is the final one on our list. It has a shaft, usually rotating (or not depending on the manufacturer), and a limb branching off the bottom of the shaft with a tip shaped like a rabbit head. Since making a cameo on “Sex and the City,” this toy has been on an upward spiral.

It was made that way because, in Japan, sex toys are not usually marketed as such prompting the companies to place animal shapes on them. Some have butterflies and what not. Japan is an amazing and country though.

Since it can stimulate the clit and the vagina simultaneously, it is all the more special. In some variants, the rabbit head vibrates as the shaft rotates. The following steps should guide her along:

Step 1: First, she should learn what the different controls do. Ideally, she should do that before she even starts using it.

Step 2: Then, she should insert it while it is still off. The rabbit ears should rest on the clit. Lube, again, is essential here.

Step 3: While it is inside, she should switch on the motors. She can start with the clitoral piece then once she gets more aroused, start the main shaft motor.

Step 4: To add more excitement, she can place the rabbit head towards her anus for some stimulation there.

To clean the vibrator, she should use a toy cleaner and some warm water. She should be wary of the water if it is not waterproof.

How do you Clean a Vibrator? (Maintenance)

If you are a woman, consider the following as the golden rules when using and cleaning the sex toys:

Rule 1: Use lubricant ALWAYS: It doesn’t matter what you are doing with your sex toy, always use lubrication.

Rule 2: Move the vibrator with the entire arm and not just with the wrist joint. It is less tiresome this way.

Rule 3: Remove the batteries from the battery compartment before you clean it. Usually, the best thing to do even if the toy is waterproof.

Rule 4: Clean and disinfect the area of the sex toy that comes into contact with your skin and bodily fluids.

Rule 5: Use warm water to clean the toy.

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