Question: I’m able to perform fine in training and even when I’m kissing and engaging in foreplay everything’s great. When it comes time for intercourse I seem to have problems. The worry has me performing worse every time! What can I do?
Answer: You made an interesting point in mentioning your worry. Since it’s obvious you don’t have any physical impediments to getting an erection it’s the worry (performance anxiety) which is causing your troubles. You might try deliberately holding off on intercourse until you feel comfortable enough and build your libido high enough to attempt performance. To facilitate this, it would be a good idea for you to abstain from any ejaculations for awhile to ensure your libido is at its best. Talking about your feeling regarding your performance with your partner is also a good idea. Letting them know the act of penetration excited you so much you tend to lose control is factual- and talking it over and taking your time DURING intercourse will enable you to get better at it.
Talking about your feeling regarding your performance with your partner is also a good idea. Letting them know the act of penetration excited you so much you tend to lose control is factual- and talking it over and taking your time DURING intercourse will enable you to get better at it.
Question on Stamina Training: Where can I find details for stamina training?
Answer: There are few different aspects to training and developing your sexual stamina. Below you’ll find links pertaining to each function, by aspect:
- Sexual Stamina Exercises: Sexual Stamina Exercises and Penis Enlargement
- Premature ejaculation: Everything You Need to Know About Premature Ejaculation
- Pornography addiction: How to Stop Your Porn Addiction
- Delaying orgasm: Orgasm without ejaculating by using the Million Dollar Point
- Male Multiple Orgasms: Can Men Have Multiple Orgasms?
- Erection Quality: My Best Tips On How to Improve Your Erection Quality
Question on partner pleasuring: I don’t last long enough to please my partner. What are some things I can do to fix this?
Answer: First, foreplay begins with the mind. If you’re merely going straight to intercourse (especially if you can’t last very long) you’re not going to be giving your partner very much to get aroused about! Besides pre-sexual seduction, you need to consider foreplay. The links provided in the earlier parts of this article will be helpful in assisting you to develop staying power, but until you build your sexual stamina- and even after you do- learning the art of foreplay will ensure your partner is pleasured thoroughly.
The sections linked below will give you some excellent instructions on learning the art of foreplay:
- Foreplay Tips That Will Make Her Wet And Ready For Action
- Free Video Course On How To Naturally Last Longer In Bed
- Beginner’s Guide On How To Finger a Girl And Blow Her Mind In Bed
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